I keep seeing posts mentioning this phenomenon more and more often.

For instance:

More and more men are being sucked into parts of the internet that circulate misogynist content, leaving their families to deal with the wreckage

‘Andrew Tate phenomena’ surges in schools - with boys refusing to talk to female teacher

Like, why? Why now? Why even? I really wish I had a time machine where I could go to the future and ask them what the general reasons were for this social development. But I feel like I’m looking for the specific thorn on a cactus that popped my balloon.

  • Norah (pup/it/she)@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    Toxic masculinity is when young men are taught that the only way to be a man is to be strong, outgoing, possessive, stoic, unemotional and tall (among other things).

    I see reading comprehension isn’t one of your strong suits.

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      2 months ago

      I see, my bad, wait no, I didn’t paid attention. my comment was not only about men, regardless of any gender, if you show these weakness, it is valid to criticize & shame you.

      Edit: fuck mod who removed my comment unjustly. probably, Just because I used p Word for cowards Edit2: Noticed error in judgement

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          2 months ago

          How it was uncivil, can you explain? & person can comment in old post which he find interesting.

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            2 months ago

            It’s the combination of all those factors I think. The part that was uncivil was, as you pointed out, using the word pussy as a derogative term.