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Cake day: March 13th, 2025

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  • I wouldn’t say I loved the weekend but I can’t listen to any of his music anymore because it’s all associated with my worst ex in my head. I bought her his first album. We went to a concert of his together.

    Hard to vibe with music when all it does is bring up memories of verbal, physical and psychological abuse. She hit me with her car once because I was begging her not to drive off drunk and angry. She started physically assaulting me and when I pinned her down and called the cops they threw ME in handcuffs the moment they got there (thankfully my landlord at the time backed me up that she was the aggressor). She falsely accused me of rape and would have ruined my entire life had her friend not sent me the evidence that she was just making it all up to get back at me.

    Sarah I hope you’re sober now and doing better, but fuck you for everything you put me through.












  • You won’t know if you don’t ask.

    People fear rejection or embarrassment for asking other people questions but once you realize that it’s the most efficient way to navigate life it really helps. Saves you time and energy. Often saves you emotional energy as well in the long run.

    If you like someone just ask them.

    If you want to know where someone got something or learned a skill just ask them.

    Curiosity is important and I feel so many people are so socially anxious that they will just try and Google and Google as opposed to entering into a simple verbal exchange with a stranger or something.