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  • incorrect, “they” can be singular or plural. that’s not even a recent “woke mind virus” change to the language, it’s always been the case.

    you literally did gender her immediately when you said “guy … his” the appropriate thing to do would be to respect the pronouns she put on her profile when they were pointed out to you.



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    eta: to degender your comment you could say “this person knows their junkies”

    but being as you’ve been beaten over the head with the fact that the OP uses she/her pronouns that would also be misgendering her.

    leaving it as using a masculine pronoun is rude at best and blatantly transphobic at worst. nobody thinks you were being actively harmful when you said it but not being willing to change it is toxic.

    you’re not the hero here.







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    5 months ago

    saying “straight guys” here gives me the implication that you think it isn’t straight for a cis guy to date a trans gal, which is transphobic. hoping that’s just me reading it wrong or you expressing it wrong though.

    to answer the question at hand though none of my trans friends would want to date someone who “would murder them if they ‘tricked them’”

    maybe there are a few trans people interested in tricking transphobes into having sex with them but that sounds extremely dangerous per that comment before…