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  • NM perspective: Border crossing at Anthony - immediate cattle feed lots, huge freeway, and then the pile of cookie-cutter houses that is El Paso.

    North into Colorado: Seems pretty much like NM, but the food gets blander and more expensive as you enter Boebert’s district. Denver is ok, but it’s like Los Angeles at a little higher altitude. If Denver had a culture, it probably died in traffic.

    East into Oklahoma/Texas: There’s like… nothing there. For miles. It’s really pretty, actually, but don’t get a flat tire.

    West into Arizona from Gallup: It’s like a portal into the 1950s, all abandoned route 66 stuff and super offensive 1950s native american stuff.

    Culturally, I’d say most of the 4 corners zone is pretty similar “southwest”, though Texas is really obsessed with big box stores and Arizona is a bit obsessed with unmarked police cars. Colorado culturally is as bland as their chiles :D

    The biggest cultural shift is traveling through the res lands between NM/AZ where you can actually go to grocery stores with local language signage.



  • Hmm. I think you mean ‘go from feeling like a teen/kid into feeling like a normal adult’? When I was in my first job out of uni, I was the youngest on my team, and definitely felt it. I slowly progressed over a few years into being one of the ones to do the documentation and training, and felt pretty ok.

    When that healthcare company was taken over by a for-profit shitshow and I had to jump ship, I applied for a lot of junior roles at various places. I got several calls, but the company that hired me was the one that offered me the senior position/lead instead. That made me realize “Oh, I guess I do know what I’m doing”.

    When I was heading up that group, I got a lot of management offers and when I finally departed to do consulting, it was because I had an appreciation for my professional worth. I did eventually leave that field because I just can’t handle doing defense shit anymore, and that’s really where the money is, but I still do ok.

    My personal sense of ‘not feeling like a kid’ was probably when I started volunteering in my community, and doing a lot more to help the folks who needed it. When you develop strong friendships in the community that persist through things like illness and major life events, you have progressed beyond the whole ‘drinking buddy’ stage of friends.











  • Only one who wrote about it was the one who went self-hosted, the rest didn’t talk about it. I would guess it ended up being the final straw, like “why direct people to X to back me instead of just promoting myself where they see me.” Especially if, as you say, the cut was so similar.